I said it appears you are still available to her. Needless to say, I am thoroughly disappointed by this. I told him i need sometimes to think, he replied by saying that he likes me but he doesnt want anything serious because he just want to have fun but not in my expenses. No call, no text, no snapchat, nothing. I was trying to do things in the right way and not rush to a relationship or label it a relationship, mistakes women often do, and I have done before years ago. I had a similar experience as yours, met a guy on a dating site who lives about 3 hours away. So am I the bad guy? He is also very confident and gentlemanly and doesnt seem like the type of guy who would just ignore someone to get rid of them. And do NOT check up on him on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or any other social media portal. He disappeared after we had sex. No way! Ive been told they love me after one date, and I can barely remember their names. If you ever run into them in public, remain classy and dont get animated or go off on them if they try to approach you. Show him the door to your life and let him go. We lived long distance but we would tango and oovoo each other every now and then. Then the following week, when we would instant message and say hi at workstarted falling off. I know I didnt do anything wrong. But then again during halloween I just wished him just like to other friends and he immediately started responding. Came to a head recently. A day before valentines day we were texting and laughing at each other and he was supposed to pick me up that day after work but didnt answer my call so I thought he fell asleep. Your passion on the issue doesnt justify or support your argument. At the end of the day, its basic human respect. Different than his. at the time, I was like whats wrong with me? When a guy suddenly disappears from your life, you want to figure out what to text him when he disappears. We were talking everyday, he met my kids and we finally made it official. You are obviously on here too. I have done that as well- but if i MAKE plans for a second date i will never cancel last minute- just a rule i have for myself. Two of them got in contact with me much, much later. After a while, though, I began to start to suspect that he was drifting away from me, and when he did contact me, I asked him about it. However, Im not ready to get close to someone who isnt aware of what they want. But since the last brief text with him about a week ago.. after all that he went for the hug but not the kiss. So a shoddy treatment of me from someone who claims to love me is not on. But then .. I laugh when he texts me by mistake my name and his bestfriends name are listed next to each other to see if he gets a quick response from me. So 3 nights ago I went dancing and hit it off with the bartender in a small joint. He kept telling me that there are some family issues he has going on and he has University to deal with, but I think his feelings for me might be dropping. I took a long hard look at him and saw him for what he really was and realized I wanted to let him go, that his attitude toward me was undesirable, and that I really couldnt even like him anymore. But you owe it to both of you to tell her she needs to slow down and let you get a word or two in because youre not a simpleton and also like to talk. The funny thing is that hes already been back in touch and apologized more than once and actually told me that he appreciated that I was patient during this time because he was an emotional wreck and felt like he couldnt talk to anyone. We had a very real and intense, though short-lived affair. He broke it off after some conflict with others at club. You have to think of you, your children and your possible future child not him! he lives in a different town but he would come every so often and we would hang out every time. The thing that really pisses me and confuses me were him saying I love you, suggesting a party in May, more video game time together He even held my hand when I walked him to his car! As with most painful experiences only time will heal. or more than likely, hell really, really want to live up to being someone who follows through and someone who is sexy to you! But whether or not its worth it, only time will tell. I return from vacation only to have him block me on instagram. He sent very mixed signals during our last conversation. I was bummed out royally- but what threw me off was that 3 1/2 weeks later, he texts me hey how are you sorry Ive been gone so long, situations at work got really challenging. I was so in shock. on to bigger and better! Especially since texting brings a lot of uncertainty and anticipation of his reaction to your texts, says Dr. Holly Sciff. I met this guy and we instantly hit it off, went out for about a month everything was great we texted constantly throughout the day, everyday, then hed call me usually, everyday. I have been patient with him but to me it sounded like an excuse. Because I didnt know he was a magician. you cant beat yourself up about it, if every relationship worked out there would be no single people on the earth! the line about waiting to have sex only makes sense if he made a serious effort to mess around in other ways (which i get the feeling he probably didnt). He was perfect. Unbelievable. I dont know what I said or if ever Ive done something to him that he didnt like. Around the six month mark I realized I was falling for him and that I actually loved him. How do you put your mind at rest? I casually ask of he wants to hang out before he goes in hopes he might invite me along or to feel out if he wants to include me but he says he already left. Genuine respect, friendship, emotional connection is important when you first meet someone you might like. Personally, unless youve actually been on a date with the person, youre not obligated to give an explanation. Are yall friends? He just started to act like he didnt want to do, or plan anything, and wasnt spending enough time with me, so I addressed the issue to him, and first thing he said was I know Im not making you happy so I asked him what was wrong, he said he didnt know, I asked him if he needed some time and he reply yes. Since hes not doing well this probably is not a good time for him to be focused on a relationship. There could be a million reasons as to why he ghosted you, but dont kid yourself on the likely reason(s). I ignored the red flags. For me Its way too difficult to handle, and I just find it very unsensitive and unfair. But then after a month he just started fading away. Insecure. You could guess how I reacted! Look upon this as he senses you need more space and so hes creating this until you show you want to close the gap. As much as he seemed great, that didnt matter. Yes, we do, but we want things like they were in the first 2 months or so when we are on our best behavior. Yes was very hard it was my birthday I am just say over 45. Eventually I wanted to deign what I was having with him since if hes not seeing anyone else and I am not seeing anyone else and I met his family and we see each other so often I think its time even knowing when he told me his last relationship was four years ago and his longest relationship was only for a few months I still wanted a label. How long should I give him to reach out before I lose hope completely? If Im not worth a reply text, youre not worth my time. I later realised he wasnt interested at all and its very painful. We made plans for the summer and meeting each others kids. I noticed over the next week, the same thing happened, calls are less frequent so last Tuesday, I called him and asked whats going on with him, same thing, his job. We sincerely shared a LOT emotionally and I was very clear with himjust tell m if youre into me, it hppens. Good looks, Great job and a very Confident attitude. I told him that Im really into him but I dont feel ready, and he was saying a lot of nice things back. . Im still broken up about it I guess I just dont understand. First of all, in his case ghosting doesnt mean that he doesnt want to continue with the relationship (as Ive learned after a year of seeing him); it only means that he want to pull away for some time and then he will be back (but you never know when). He made me feel so alive again. The first time I didnt know if he was dead or alive because I heard that he had to go the hospital and I knew he had health issues. Anyways, its time to move on. Im not going to blab on and on about it But I can say, with a reasonable level of confidence, that it was likely a major factor in his decision to ghost you. I have four ideas but will never know really which one it really is.. 1: his wife started to suspect something and they got in an argument and he got scared so he stopped contacting me.. 2: Hes started to see another woman and cant juggle 3 women at one time so he let me go. They wernt even conscious games really but more on a sub-conscious level. I lost my mate of 23+ years to cancer over a year ago. I just recently got ghosted. Its evident you cant deal with confrontation head on and act like an immature boy that rather take the easy yet cowardly way out. What is a certainty is that you can always keep being plugged into your own life, at all times. You are the better person. I was so happy those 2 weeks and silly me thought that maybe this could be the start of something good . Relationships make us strong as we get most heartbroken in relationships. We were talking and our conversation was fun and happy and then, because he works nights, we said goodbye. Please comment I need ADVISE here!!! One of them talked to me for hours and then disappeared only to contact me back like 2 months later by asking me if I wanted to go out to dinner and a movie. Hi Ryan, Thanks in advance for your help. I was upset and emotional. I dont miss him, I dont hate him, I just got fed up of wasting my time on him, nice work! The phone calls stopped Thanksgiving week. So glad I found this article!! Given the short time i have not got very concerned. Heres whats wrong with the picture. Thanks Natasha for the response! At least you know already what kind of a guy he is. Has that ever worked? He was the one to say on the first date, that if either one of us didnt want to see one another at some point to just tell the other person. We were very close for a few months. I feel so painful Around November-December he got busy. We continued to text each other from morning till night every day! I already have many men giving me attention and treating me nice, yes it is hard to trust them and I will probably get hurt again. Hit it off, had a great time, immediately he asked for another date. So then 4 more days go by . The next day he tries to make things normal and hits me up like nothing happened. I sent him a long chat, asking him if he was alright, but he didnt even open the chat. So, I just want to make sure whether were on the same page as I really appreciate it when guys can admit that theyre not into the relationship. I have well paying job, a home, a vehicle and make my own decent money, so not looking for hand outs, I dont have any issues with my kids father and Im a pretty positive person. Dont want you to be afraid I finally cam to the rationalization of he he should have never let me have this space to myself to give me a chance to move and find someone who treats me better. Ive asked that too.. Do you want me to leave you alone? He just says, why would I want that? . I do not want to play games anymore and only put in as much effort as him and wait until he contacts me but I feel as if this is the only way. Hes being possessive and he knows that. Not until the holidays when I sent a greeting for the holidays. You can be ball=less and disappear and at your convenience text someone, or not, telling them youve moved on. You brag about ghosting a woman and justify it. Thank you for your perspective. He would do that again, and it would hurt more if you invested in the relationship. Then one weekend he went away and the whole time he was calling and texting just to chat, nothing specific but it was nice to know he had me in mind. I met this guy on tinder 6 months ago. Needlesa to say, I stayed the night. I spent the night again. Sorry, Sabrina, I dont mean to cut in on you here, but here goes for all those gals with the recent posts out there in the dumps. Initially I felt he cant just forget how supportive I have been over a petty thing and accept his mistake, apologise (in fact I tried to mend things although it was his fault) I thought our bond was stronger than that. You're Just Not A Priority For Him. The sooner you break loose of any connection to this kind of relationship, the better your chances of meeting the right one for you. It is scary for us too. It was just so shady and the part that annoys me is why say youre gonna come pick a girl up if youre not? Then I remembered I left my house keys in the car. First, in order to understand men, take advice from men, not women. Or the excuse is we just dont click. I started blaming myself for being so ridiculous and silly and stupid. We finally met. I happen to be in his town (have close family there), hes asking to see me, several times, but I couldnt, had no free time. He didnt pursue the discussion and so the next day, I sent a text asking what he really wanted. You will understand his true interest level. When the guy who disappears suddenly makes a reappearance by texting you, youre now left with another puzzling question in your head: What should I do?! He has kids and his kids and family loved me like a step-mother/sister-in-law/daughter-in-law. I now come with a warning label if you want to date me. Tell us how you dealt with it in comments! I liked him and really thought he was a great person and we didnt rush into anything so I gave it chance. We talked everyday, he promised to make it work. Anyone, either male or female, who has been ignored or avoided, understands that this hurts. We argued got angry with each and came to a mutual agreement/resolved so therefore I thought things were good between us. They love the hunt and your baking so soon (and more so the delivery of those cakes) simply dampened the fun for him and he values hard to get. Thank you and good luck! Get your mind off of him, and be mysterious. Our paths then crossed a few weeks later, he was polite but that was it. Im not playing games Now hes totally avoiding me, getting someone else to help me at the counter. I decided to give in, texted him to say hi, how are you. A part of me wants to reach out and acknowledge that we werent exclusive, but I thought he valued communication and was under the impression he would have extended that courtesy to say not interested or whatever what do you think? He called me two days ago, drunk in his moms basement, demanding that i leave work to get him. I was also pretty angry too, as I felt like he le, Hey! Sorry, I am no walkover and will not let any man give me a date to meet him without discussing it with me first, so I told him, sorry tied up tomorrow, but is Wed or Thurs good for you? Was this yesterday? Yes we were imitate all the time but he would always go home or I after the night was over. Of course he my have blocked me or not reply, but I feel I need to do this for my own peace of mind. Childish, clearly he wasnt interested so I sent him a text have a nice life. Im confused by your actions and I sense that you are too. Good advice! I tried contacting him but no response. He talked about having kids and getting married. But theres the idea that he thinks I will wait. ) Im 50+, 7 years later, and still trying but stopped trying to figure them out. As much as Im hurt and sad.the next time I see him, Im gonna tell him to play his games elsewhere..life is to short and I dont have the time. It wasnt our best date and we did have an awkward conversation at one point about not having very much in common but we still spent the night together and parted on happy terms in the morning. But really because i became psycho bitch and a sent a few more texts regardless contact was made- and it turns out he needed space then back to silence. We said it always meant something special and how we liked each other. Shes been with him for 6 months and he says he doesnt want a commitment but he will act like her boyfriend when hes with her and then disappears for a few days. At first, itll be hard to ignore the one person with whom you actually saw a life together but once you realize how he tried to play with your feelings, youll then figure out that its the only right thing to do. And 2 next months we going to have a vacation. I started by deleting his phone number so that I know I wont text him anymore but I still havent managed to unfriend him. So sorry this happened to you similar thing happened to me. good times at a nice restaurant shes still talking quite a bit and im starting to notice having to manufacture interest in the conversation sometimes since i dont really get a turn to talk. And he did, but it was like texting my grandma. Thank you, I know thats right, but its still hurtful. He asked me to marry him and I said yes. He told you point blank hes not into it and only wants to be your friend. and sometimes the more you learn the more you like her, but sometimes the more you learn the less you like her. So they can be Liked. I cant believe they left us on such a cliffhanger. You said it so well! Neither did he. Always come back. No need to be upset girl First date went really well and we agreed to see each other the day after. You do deserve the best and you will find it.good luck dear!! I met a very young handsome and extremely wealthy guy. Getting a text from your ex might bring up a lot of emotions depending on how you ended things. Honestly I would be fine if HE hadnt been the one to get emotional first. If he was the right guy for youwell he would be with you! I would see him on facebook but not text me back and I got angry and blocked him. Im not needy nor do Iread into thingm and this felt 100% mutual (best feeling). Hellllppp. Internet, friends, work, etc. He is 41 and I am 43, so it isnt as if we are young and inexperienced. Okay with it. he would always say stuff like yeah we should go do something for real but after 4 months we still did not do anything till I aventually orgenised something . I did call him and text him but no reply . Im not defending him in any way. Messaged him today nothing, hes completely ignoring me, not answering his phone or text. We finally texting each other and everything was just going awesome. There can be nothing worse than seeing a guy, for weeks, or maybe months and then one day they suddenly disappear. I knew he had a problem with depression as he had been thru an episode a few months back and came out the other side ok. We talked about sex and specifically how long we wanted to wait. My 7 year old daughter was highly involved as well. Went on five dates with a guy and really was into him. I was speechless to hear that. Because NOBODY tells them off! Tomorrow will be 7 days that we have not spoke to each other and I am not sure if were still together or not but I just do not feel that a 7 minute conversation should cause a person to not talk to you for this long. Lack of effort to contact him might have been the cause of his disappearance. if he contacted me I replied, if he asked me out, I agreed only if I have time. I later saw on his Facebook that he went on a trip to Canada at the same time that I was supposed to have been with him in France. He didnt. There was no making out in the car like we did other times we met at lunch. I have had guys ghost on me. He made up excuses that he was busy with kids and work. He wasnt over expressive but we mutually marveled at how much we already liked eachother, etc. The only thing he would say is that he has feelings for me. Though sometimes it hurts when I think about the good times we spent. He was so loving and attentive to absolutely no contact at all what so ever. They are definitely the biggest cowards that exist!!!! Then silence for months. Although, Im the same person but I dont know. Contact Us | On-line dating has been an interesting adventure, to say the least! We texted a little at the start. He shared a photo of his ex wife and she actually looked very nice. That hes far more concerned about himself and not you. Thanks! Until that night. What can I do for HIM? I know how frustrating this behavior can be, as Ive experienced it firsthand. you have been too available. Be good to yourself.. Definitely there is something wrong with him. All I got was a text message the next day basically saying he would call me the next day because he was busy at work. I just want to let you know that Im really not interested in hanging out with guys who dont follow through and guys who vanish and then reappear. I asked him plainly if he simply wasnt interested anymore or if he had someone else. I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago after a year and a half of relatiionship for no reason. Its rude as hell for him to ignore your texts/phone calls, and he doesnt deserve to have his hard drive back. but still he ignored me. I know its really hard, but please dont waste any more time on this boy. BE A DAMNED MAN AND TELL THE LADY YOU DONT WANT TO SEE HER ANYMORE! If he actually lost interest in YOU it would have been a bit less sudden (if hed met someone else he would have gone cold much sooner, and if hed met her right before your date he still would have shown up, the more the merrier! however, he sometimes come back again wondering why I didnt contact him. I Totally get ur need for closure, for him to just tell it straight, but likely, youre not gonna get that. Im am kicking myself going through all these comments and realizing the best thing to do after a break up is to end contact. A guy who doesn't text back until you repeatedly hit him up has no interest at all he's just trying to get you off his back. If he still doesn't respond, don't persist. He also started calling and over the phone we talked for hours on end. We were talking when my very drunk work mate pulled me from the conversation. I think this guy has a lot of issues he needs to deal with and that he doesnt even seem to be aware of. But no I talk to my friends bf(whos a friend of mine) more him I was and am not. No matter if they say they are miserable, unhappy, etc, you should not have entered into a relationship with someone else who is married. It comes from a good place but it appears you have learned a valuable lesson and thats to back off a bit and let a man chase you. Thank you for making me stronger. Then said gnight, then poof gone out of thin air. He says he will text me. ?Was this guys name Randy by any chance?Coz i just literally read my story in yours!!!! All i can say to anyone in this situation is if you see your relationship heading in this direction, RUN!! Do you know what to do to get things back on track? He walked me home and we hugged on my doorstep. Wanna share whats going on? It happened to me a month ago! So it actually really pays to take the emotional charge out of feeling blown off. But he seemed so distant so I left it at that. We had a lot going on: First of all, we were LDR (the worst!) To be fair, as a woman, I have done this to a few men, in my life time, and very recently too. That he went through a rough patch and ghosted and is now back and wants a second chance. I pull back too cause I believe No matter him much it hurts I have too much a Self Respect to serve as anyones entertainment!!!! After two first dates with a lively beautiful blond (middle school teacher) I had to let her off the hook. i was with him for several months and he pursued me, gave me flowers for valentines day, took me to dinner, picked me up in his car, spent weekends together, and made plans for future events. No response. After 6 months we booked up to go to Greece together for our first romantic holiday. Look her in the eyes and tell her its her fault. Now its turned dating into pump and dump. Its better to just tell someone youre not feeling it then just completely disappearing on them and leaving them wondering if you are going to call/if they were so horrible of a person/meant so little that they didnt even deserve the basic human decency of a response/communication. Be thanking he walked away when he did. I have a deep understanding of masculine and feminine psychology, the biological influences that shape our relationships today, and the ways people communicate their romantic feelings and intentions. But he thinks Im a cool girl and wants to be friends. ( I dont smoke or drink by choice) I do have a lot of friends who do and I told him that as long as drinking and smoking is not a habit and a life style. Well here goes my story, I was going through a breakup from a guy who was emotionally abusive towards me and decided to go in a dating site for a rebound a guy who wasnt that much my typed messaged me and he seemed different from all the other guys I dated in the past so I gave it a shot, we met at a book store and walked around the park the first time we met it was nice but when he said goodbye he side hugged me and ran off I thought he wasnt interested in me so I let it pass, he texts me the next day to ask to see me before he goes away on a family vacation for the next two weeks I was too busy to see him then so he ended up going on his family vacation and I thought I would never here from him again he contacts me the second he gets back to see me which I was very surprise he still remembered me and wanted to see me we went out in our second date it was nice, on the third date he explained to me he has a very serious case of OCD and anxiety disorder and that was part of the reason why he ran off the day we first met due to an episode he had, I am not the person to judge because my brother had autism and I have a good understanding when it comes to mental disorders. I just want the spark back. Hours later he texts suggesting we meet for a drink sometime at this point Im caught up and end up texting a few hours later but I apologize for the late reply and say Itd be nice to meet up. I too have stressed weeks, so I just responded saying I wished it would get better.. "I'm going to have cancel our date tomorrow. He told me of a girl he was once seeing (a few times) who wanted to leave her blow dryer at his place. I finally had to block him when he called me twice between 5 am and 6 am. He came up put his hand on my back and said hey stranger. We were partners and together everywhere. . Happy to banter with no real emotional connection I think a lot of women have this very delusional perception of how much someone elses world should be revolving around them and it obviously causes many women a lot of problems in their relationships. I said I find it hard to believe any woman finding this acceptable and he said listen..trust me Ive been through this before (with his past girlfriends) and they reacted the same way. As I usually have a non-memorable birthday alone (its mid-August, so people are always away or too busy), I was wary but it felt good to have someone I liked be interested that I have a good day. I am exercising more and getting fresh air, therefore am losing weight and ready to take on the world again. Im Sorry, this is long but I have never ever had a guy pull a Houndini on me. WHY on earth would she waste her time with a guy like that? let me date hundreds of Men. And yes there are a lot of inconsiderate immature douchebags out there who give men a bad rep, just like women looking for placeholder men give other women a bad rep. My theory works, and i stick by it- friendship, then commitment, then love, THEN and only then is there any talk about long term future plans. It is not cool, not cool for most of us, but beacuse we seem to tolerate, now it has become common practice for men to leave without any accountability on his part. It hurts like hell and i do not know what to do. He stopped initiating contact with you because he is no longer interested in you. Im sorry this happened to you. That is what cowards do. He was eager to meet and planned a first date for us, which was the best date ever. I would be running for the hills. Id appreciate your opinion! Lol! Did he offer to meet. After 6 months we booked up to go to Greece together for our first romantic holiday, 7 months into the relationship and a week before our holiday he rang me up and broke up with me. I call he doesnt answer. By the end of the day Im furious and crying like a little baby. He then ignored me for a month after i told him not to contact me and that behaving like that and saying he was still into me was text book stringing someone along. Every individual is a little unique and it is quite unfitting to pack all men in the same bag. Hopefully you and I will come out of this not too damaged. Anyway I was in denial and thought maybe something happend and hed contact me the next day apologizing and making plans again to meet.y would he act so interested to just go Mia?! I keep thinking to myself: But this story seems to me an opportunity to share one of the deep frustrations that men have with dating (for some of us its subconscious, but its definitely there), and that is that often we feel more like the object of our partners nurture programming than actually the object of someones affection. I feel like crap though. That might have made him feel overwhelmed with emotions, making it necessary to have some space to recollect himself. He would make it seem like life was stressing him out. I sent him birthday gift which he should have received when I was texting him but ne never bothered to say thanks. 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